Become A Better Chooser

When you work to become a better chooser, you get better a creating opportunities in your life.

We can become better choosers.

If we don’t, then life just happens to us. 

Every moment of our life has multiple choices within it. A constant sea of opportunities we’re swimming in, with varying degrees of consciousness. 

There are physical and mental choices constantly being made at every moment. 

Some to deal with our immediate circumstances, others trying to affect our theoretical future. 

It’s just so easy to get lost in the endless options. 

 

Being in the now is hard.

Being in your now requires being good at choosing, confidently applying that choices to your existence, then letting go of it, and moving on to the next. 

If we decide not to choose, then life happens to us. We become an object floating on the winds of fate. 

It can seem easier to just not make choices. But if you do that, you get worse at being able to see them. 

Your options seem to disappear as you stop believing in your ability to make them. 

When you stop choosing regularly, everything you do becomes less specific and unique. Your specificity can only be seen by making choices. 

If you’re not choosing, then life happens to you. You’re end up only reacting to the most obvious options that fate and other people begrudgingly provide. 

 

Conscious choosing helps you to maintain a consistent evolution.

You can see yourself changing.

It lets you own your now. 

It allows you to feel the power of your causality. You feel less manipulated by fate or invisible forces. 

By choosing more, you’re able to maintain the persistence of your potential. You can perceive worth of your applied perspicacity. 

By not practicing choosing, you become a weaker chooser. You don’t want to choose. It becomes too hard. 

Eventually, you stop believing you have any choices. You stop being able to perceive them. Choices stop being options. 

You end up waiting around for easily visible opportunities.  

If we lose our power to choose, it doesn’t matter how many choices we have. They might as well not exist. 

Every opportunity is only as valuable as our ability to appropriately act upon it. 

 

THERE’S ENDLESS POTENTIAL TO IMPROVE OUR CHOOSING.

We can start becoming better choosers with our immediate bodily choices. The constant opportunities to improve our breathing and posture.  

I’d be tempted to call them simple choices, but really, every choice is only as simple as our relative internal choosing strength. 

Every second of our waking day is a chance to improve our breathing and posture. 

To become aware of how much both of them affect your current state of mind and emotion. 

Both affect how you deal with every circumstance. Well applied, both of them will improve every choice made.

They help you physically relax while making other choices. 

If you can maintain the consciousness of your constant bodily choice continually, it helps anchor you to the now. It opens the door to other options. 

Once you recognize the worth and availability of the small, solid choices in your life, you’ll see more that you might have unconsciously ignored before. 

 

It’s easy to get lost in Big choices.   

Thinking them to be more important than all the small ones. If you can only see large decisions, you start to feel tiny in the face of every choice.  

It’s important to become skilled at small choices. 

If you’re not good at making small choices, your big ones won’t be much better. 

Big choices have to be built on the power of our solid smaller choosing. 

The better you get at making small immediate choices, the better you become at embracing bigger opportunities. 

It makes you a more confident chooser for when the bigger choices arrive. 

If you spend most of your life not choosing, choices of all sizes will be avoided with equal confusion and fear. 

We chose not to choose, and ended up somewhere unspecific.

Without being willing to engineer better opportunities in our lives, we can get stuck in situations based on the wrong choices, made when we were worse choosers. 

Being trapped in unfulfilling jobs and relationships forces us to waste our choosing power on emotionally empty endeavors.

 

We need to find choices we actually want to make. 

And make them every day. 

The better our choices get, the more worthwhile choosing becomes to us. 

The more interesting and specific our choices are to our unique selves, the more enjoyable and invigorating they are to make. 

Consciously using your choices to evolve helps prove that choices are genuinely worth something. That if they’re applied to our preference, they can create amazing experiences.  

A choice doesn’t have to be big. It just has to be an attempt at conscious improvement. 

The rightness of any choice will always be a variable determinism. It’s something we’ve got to spend our whole lives getting better at. 

We can only evolve by making choices. All kinds of choices. For all different kinds of reasons. 

You have to make choices just for yourself, as well as choices that purely benefit others.  

 

You become a better chooser with every choice made. 

Strengthening your perspicacity reflex for when juicy choices are ripe. 

The more you practice making small choices, the better your immediate connection to the world becomes. The quicker and more determinedly you trust the decisions you make. The less you flounder. 

We see reality better. Becoming less confused by choices that aren’t actually happening right now. 

Thoughts we can choose not to worry about right now. Choosing peace. 

Not getting get lost in endless imaginary options, wallowing over events we have no immediate control over.  

You’ll no longer be as worried by choices that can’t be made right now. 

If you can own your immediate choices, you’ll better recognize your potential potency in every moment. 

Most importantly, you can learn how to choose peace. 

It’s always a choice. Every moment of every day. Especially when the world is chaotic around you.

When you can choose to be calm and receptive in any situation, not to freak out, then everything in your world becomes easier to deal with. 

The more conscious choosing you do, the quicker and more accurate your choices become. 

Your current temporal currency becomes a form of currency you can spend more confidently. 

You start to own your now more, once you recognize the power of immediacy that choosing grants you. 

You’re more consistently productive, recognizing the options you have. 

You start to exemplify your power of consciousness in every environment.  

Maintaining a stronger tether to your moment,  

Anchored in choices, you stop getting lost in abstractions and external confusion.   

You’ll never not have options again.